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February 26, 2007 | Category: Reflections & Musings

I’ve just realized today that I’ve been blogging less and less. It’s good in some ways, it tells you that I have a life apart from just blogging. On the other hand, it’s also bad and that also means I’m being boring and have nothing to reflect upon. However, considering the state of mind I’m in now it doesn’t seem like I have a life. I try to be as productive at work but my mind seems to wonder else where. It’s not because I’m lazy. No, I’m not lazy. I’m feeling uninspired. I’ve lost all inspiration and motivation to blog. No. Lazy or unmotivated are two different words and meanings. Oh shut up and just read.

Chinese New Year came and went in a blink. I just didn’t quite felt nor enjoyed the celebration of it this year. Perhaps I’ve been so busy with so many things I’ve hardly had the time to sit down and enjoy it like I used to. It’s been all about baking, cooking, cleaning, offering and more cooking and cleaning. The feeling of numbness is very much in existence thank you very much.

Something funny happened last Friday night though, my dear close friend (who’s a complete nutcase when it comes to Caucasian men) decided that she kind of fancy a newly made aquaintance. Personally, I wouldn’t date a man like that although I have to admit he was kinda hot for his age. I mean, all night long they were flirting with each other right in front of me but as the night went on I really didn’t understand what she was doing. She was obviously giving mixed signals to him. One minute she’s all over him and so over him (I mean OVER him) the next. Now is that a typical woman or what?

When I first knew her, she came across as a very emotionally strong woman who knows what she wants. Any men would find her extremely intimidating, however the longer I got to know her the less intimidating I found her. Yes, she’s a very intelligent woman but unfortunately, she lets her emotions get the better of her. In summary, she can be a very vain fickle minded contradicting drama queen.

Anyways, she obviously wanted to bonk this dude but since her signal was all over the place, she ended up bonking herself that night. She merely embarrassed herself by getting drunk and puking outside my car. Go figure. He on the other hand was clearly dissappointed (for not able to get bonked, duh). It was a good thing I don’t have a thing for him or else she wouldn’t be talking to me right now.

The other disastrous thing that happened was that the next morning I had alcohol poisoning. If there is such a thing. My inapt ability to control myself from having only one type of drink that night caused me to fall ill on Saturday morning. It really wasn’t the number of drinks I’ve had but the number of different drinks I had that night. In total, I had four different types of drinks in the span of five hours. I puked like I never puked before in my life. It took me half a day to run in and out of the toilet before I finally stopped puking. Right now I can feel my ribs aching especially when I cough. Talk about wanting to have a good time. Anyhow, I’ve recovered since then.

A couple of nights before Friday, I had an interesting unexpected conversation with the head of security uncle at Waterfront. He knows Amy and I well since we’re regulars there and he would normally help us get good parking spaces. He called me as I got out of my car that night. He said, ‘Lady, I got someone I want to introduce to you.’ I remained speechless until he asked me, ‘Lady, did you hear what I said? I’ve got someone I want to introduce to you.’

I went, ‘Oh. Umm, why?’

‘What do you mean why? Someone very nice I assure you. Have you heard of insert-name-here?’

‘Er, yes I’ve heard of him. I’ve never met him though.’

‘Ah, good good. Take your handphone, I give you his number.’

‘Er uncle later la, I’m late for my appointment already.’

‘No no no! Don’t give me excuses. Here jot down his number. It’s 01XXXXXXXX. Now gimme your number so I can give him.’

‘Ah uncle no need la, I will call him.’

‘No such thing lady, I will get him to call you instead.’

Speechless.

Now someone please slap me 10 times coz’ this isn’t happening to me again. Yes, I have been set up before once by my aunts! These are the few most unusual thing that happened during my CNY week off. Anything gripping happened to you lately?

4 Comments

  1. Rambling Mind
    on March 1st, 2007
    1

    Happy CNY! Good to hear that you’re getting set up (again!). Hahahahahahaha

    Anyway, try sitting down for 12 days of continuous 12-hr mahjong sessions then tell me about an your uneventful CNY

  2. Dee
    on March 2nd, 2007
    2

    Gong Xi Gong Xi :)

    Yeah Thanks! (NOT!)

    Well, you had a choice whether to sit down for 12-hrs playing mahjong, which you eventually decided you wanted to flatten your ass. So yeah. :D

    I didn’t have a choice not to bake cookies & cakes and standing for hours making ‘em. So go figure. :eek:

  3. Shan
    on March 2nd, 2007
    3

    I SO knew someone who behaved like your friend. Almost 99% identical behaviour which would confuse and perplex even the rest of her friends.
    Sad thing is I think she may be a little mentally unstable - The woman I’m talking about, not your friend of course :)

  4. Dee
    on March 2nd, 2007
    4

    Shan: Hahaha…you’re probably right. She probably IS a little mentally unstable. It’s one thing to go gaga over Caucasian men but it puts other women to shame when one exhumes mixed signals toward the opposite sex. But who’s to say that not all women aren’t like that.

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