She Ain’t A Gold Digger

March 29, 2006 | Category: Reflections & Musings

So I have this couple of new girlfriends whom I met through err modelling. A bunch of party animals and hyaenas in heat 24-7. The things that they do just astounds me. Oh excuse me, one is married (FlirtyFiona) with three kids whose husband is a complete foul tempered moron (never actually met him but by the way she talks of him, I’m assuming so). The other is a 40ish plus divorcee (HotMamaMia) with a teenage daughter.

Anyways, party animals and bloody drinkers they are. I was one of those years back but not anymore. I don’t think I could ever do it again. I tried though. Last Friday. Outcome? An overdosed hangover and a couple of aching joints for the next three days.

I had a blast, although there was one situation I wasn’t quite comfortable with. All my years clubbing and partying, I have never schemed my way into getting any man to buy me drinks. Being brought up the way I am, it’s always ‘paiseh’ for us girls to ask a man to buy us drinks. So we don’t. We buy our own drinks unless we know the latter well.

Unfortunately, this isn’t the case with my new girlfriends. The richer the man the better. The uglier the man the better. The more friends he has the better. The more married he is the better. Personally, I try not to fraternize with married men; certainly not in that kind of way. I wouldn’t care if he was a millionaire or a billionaire, I don’t expect him to buy me a drink nor do I want to fraternize. Of course, if he’s single and available, why not. I even wouldn’t mind a nice shag. *grins*

Why do some women go to clubs in search of big fish and do things that morally puts all other women in this earth to shame? No wonder some men have no respect for us women.

I really don’t mind flirting (as in flirt-talk) with them but to ‘entertain’ them like we’re a bunch of GROs is just repulsive. We’re not, I’m not a GRO that’s for sure. What are their motives? Is it loneliness?

So what did I do that night? I tried doing what the other girls did. It didn’t last long because it just wasn’t something I wanted to do. By the end of the night, everyone else was completely wasted except for me (I had a few tricks up my sleeve to avoid getting drunk and forced to drink) and another girl who was quite sick. I felt sorry for her though, she had to wait ’cause she wasn’t driving; neither did I.

I’m just glad HotMamaMia didn’t actually ‘entertained’ those men, but as for FlirtyFiona; need I say more?

In short, I just ain’t a gold digger like everyone else.

3 Comments

  1. Brutus
    on March 29th, 2006
    1

    Wondering if you could tell me where this joint is. Not that I am a rich man, or out to buy women drinks. I am just curious where such women or tai tai go to and why that place. It makes my drinking all the more fun from such observations. Thanks

  2. ivyedme
    on March 29th, 2006
    2

    Dear Dee, I must say, I am as appalled when reading this entry of yours. I mean no men (no matter how rich or ugly) should be subjected of being used that way. Indeed, it puts us (women) to shame. Would we be okay if we are subjected to similar situation? It makes us look cheap. So cheap that we cannot even buy our own drinks that we have to solicit men into buying us one? But then again, this is just my two cents worth. I am no angel but I cannot be the devil that digs either. And that is that!

  3. Dee
    on March 29th, 2006
    3

    Brutus: I don’t have to point out to you where. Open your eyes and see.

    ivyedme: Believe me, it looked like an orgy only with clothes on. Sigh.

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